This lesson emphasizes the importance of respecting others and their opinions. Students will delve deeper into their understandings of friendship and compromise, and work on a collaborative project to apply what they have learned.
Two to Three forty minute periods
The learner will:
- explain the phrase "Love your neighbor as yourself."
- explain the term "compromise."
- interview a classmate to understand their opinions.
- compromise their needs to meet the needs of others in a collaborative project.
Students compromise on project plans and show their families how to compromise.
Anticipatory Set:
Tell students that you are going to prove that each individual in the class is special. Distribute "Things We Do Well" Survey (See Attachment One) and allow students 10-15 minutes to complete. When they have finished, explain that since everyone is special and has special talents, it is important to consider each student’s opinion and to treat everyone with respect.
- As a class, read the text from Leviticus 19:16 and the sources commenting on the importance of this verse (see Attachment Two). Ask students to explain the statement of Rabbi Hillel. Discuss: What does it mean to treat others as you wish to be treated and why is that so important.
- Assign each student a partner. Ask each student to spend ten minutes interviewing his/her partner on how s/he would like to be treated (See Attachment Three). After ten minutes, announce that it is time for the second partner to interview his/her peer.
- Bring the class back together and ask whether or not they were surprised by the results of the interview. Ask them to raise their hands if they had the same or similar answers for 1 question, 2 questions, 3 questions, etc. Stress that it is important to realize these types of differences when you work and play with others.
- Tell students that they will work with their partner to make an illustration of how one should properly treat a friend. Explain that each will plan out how they would make their illustration if they were on their own, and then they will meet together to combine their ideas. Tell them that at least part of the each of the original plans must be included in the final product, and explain that this may mean that they have to compromise. Spend a few minutes clarifying that compromising means that each side gives a little and gets a little.
- Distribute "Cooperative Illustration Worksheets" (See Attachment Four) and allow students to work independently on their planning. When they finish the planning, partners can work together on their compromise sheets and begin the project.
- After the projects are complete, share them with the class and have each group reflect on what was good about compromising and what was difficult about compromising.
Assess students based on observations, their performance on worksheets, and the level of understanding that they demonstrate when they share and reflect on their experience in front of the class.
Instruct students to become a "Compromise Cop" at home. Tell them to look for two situations at home that could be helped by compromising and to suggest to those involved (in an appropriate and tactful way) how to compromise.
Set up a "court system" in the classroom where students can encourage their classmates to compromise when disagreements arise.
Lesson Developed and Piloted by:
Shira HammermanName: __________________ Date: _______________
Things We Do Well
Directions: Find someone in your class who fits these descriptions. Have s/he sign next to the descriptions that s/he fits. Everyone must sign at least ONE line!
1. A person who has bowled and gotten a strike. ________________________
2. A person who has won a contest. _______________________________
3. A person who ran a race and finished. ___________________________
4. A person who read 5 books last summer. _________________________
5. A person who is very organized. _______________________________
6. A person who has gotten a hole in one.__________________________
7. A person who can sing really well. _____________________________
8. A person who can dance really well. _____________________________
9. A person who is great at soccer. _______________________________
10. A person who is a great artist. ________________________________
11. A person who is a great friend. ________________________________
12. A person who can play an instrument. __________________________
13. A person who has hit a home run. _____________________________
14. A person who knows how to speak a foreign language well. ________________
15. A person who has scored a touchdown. ______________________________
16. A person who is fun to work with. _____________________________
17. A person who is a great writer. ________________________________
18. A person who is a great speller. _______________________________
19. A person who is very friendly. ________________________________
20. A person who knows how to type. _____________________________
21. A person who is good at math. ________________________________
22. A person who knows a poem by heart ___________________________
23. A person who has completed a science experiment __________________
24. A person who can ice skate ____________________________________
25. A person who can ski _________________________________________
26. A person who can swim a lap _____________________________________
27. A person who can bake cookies ___________________________________
28. A person who knows the National Anthem by heart ____________________
29. A person who can sew __________________________________________
30. A person who has won a game of chess _____________________________
Name: __________________ Date: _______________
Leviticus 19:18 and Commentary
"You must love your neighbor as [you love] yourself. I am God."
Leviticus 19:18
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"Rabbi Akiva says, "This is a great principle in the Torah."
Rashi on Leviticus 19:18
*Rashi is a well-known rabbi who lived in France during the 11th Century. He wrote many interesting comments on the Torah. Rabbi Akiva lived at the turn of the 1st Century.
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The Talmud tells a story about a man who went to see Rabbi Hillel and asked him to teach him the entire Torah while he stood on one foot. Rabbi Hillel answered:
"What is hateful to you, do not do to your neighbor. That is the whole Torah, while the rest is commentary…go and learn it."
Babylonian Talmud, Shabbat 31A
* The Talmud is one of the most important books in Jewish law. It was written during the 5th and 6th Centuries. Rabbi Hillel is a well-known rabbi who lived at the turn of the 5th Century.
Name: __________________ Date: _______________
Interview Worksheet
Directions:
One partner starts by asking the other partner these questions and writing the responses on this sheet. In ten minutes, you will switch jobs and the second partner will ask these questions. IMPORTANT: In your examples, do not mention names of specific people because it could hurt their feelings.
1. How do you like to be treated when you are playing a game with a friend? Give an example of when you were treated this way.
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2. How do you like to be treated when you are working on a project with a partner? Give an example of when you were treated this way.
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3. How do you like to be treated when you are playing with the entire class at recess? Give an example of when you were treated this way.
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4. Give at least one example of something that you don’t think people should do to their friends.
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5. Give at least one example of something that you think people should do more of to their friends.
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NAME: _____________________________ DATE: ______________
Partner’s name: ______________________
Cooperative Illustration Planning Sheet
I would like my illustration to be the following color:
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I chose this color because
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I would like to put the following designs on my illustration:
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I chose these designs because
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Here is a sketch of my ideas:
Cooperative Illustration Compromise Sheet
We chose to make our illustration the following color:
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This is how we compromised:
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We decided to make the following design on our illustration:
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This is how we compromised:
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**Before you start to make your illustration, decide which partner will get which supplies. **
How did each partner help MAKE the actual illustration?
Partner Name: How s/he helped:
A. ________________ A. _________________________________________________________
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B. ________________ B. _________________________________________________________
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